Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-99.50.241.111-20130422210148/@comment-5525546-20130422234957

Well, Moreorless I can honestly say I don't have that problem. But I can honestly understand those who do. it's just like stagefright. (again not me, but alot of people do) Being relatable is just a good thing to go off of. It's less who you are online, but what you do. My name is Matthew, but if you ask anyone here who Matthew is out of context they will be very confused. Nobody knows Matthew. They Just Know Xasparaz. Online it doesn't matter who you are. (unless you are mega rich or famous of course) So if you let go of that and hang loose it helps the tides come in. People as they are, Generally are too self-Absorbed to care about others. Not Being mean here but think. when someone talks about themselves are you...

A. going to be excited at every word, or

B. Bored and looking for a spot to end the conversation.

I don't mean your best friend or girlfriend/boyfreind but just anyone.

So don't even then, don't worry what other people say. No one is real online. Everyone is hiding behind one mask or another. I mean EVERYONE. Including me. You can look all over this site and my YouTube, I can be either Knock-your-socks-Off Hilarious, or Go SuperGenius in one debate or another. In Reallife sure I'm a Nerd, but I'm so dorky I generally don't come out like that. I'm not nearly is active so I don't have the air about me. I'm pretty much a loser in real life. But I can come on here and be whoever I want to be. I chose to be someone Awsome. You see, whether you are young or old, Fat or skinny, Or even Mentally/Nuerologically ill. It doesn't matter. People handle things with you how you lead them. Be good, and so will they, Be bad, and so will they. They don't know you or can see you, so if socail anxiety has you down just remeber that. You don't have to give any information you don't want to. You just have to go out and do something.